Couples & marriage therapy

Couples Therapy for a Sexless Marriage: How to Rebuild Intimacy Without More Pressure

A marriage can become sexless slowly. At first, intimacy is postponed because someone is tired, work is demanding, children need attention, or life feels overwhelming. Then weeks turn into months. One partner stops initiating to avoid rejection. The other begins to experience every affectionate touch as a possible request for sex. Eventually, neither person knows […]

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Stages of Grief After Divorce: What Healing Can Really Look Like.

Divorce can end a marriage on paper long before your emotions understand what has happened. Even when separation is the right decision, you may still grieve the relationship, the routines you shared, the future you expected, and the version of yourself that existed within the marriage. That is why divorce grief can feel confusing. You

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Open Marriage or Open Relationship: What Couples Should Consider Before Opening Their Relationship

The idea of an open marriage can bring up many different emotions. One partner may feel curious or hopeful, while the other may feel surprised, anxious, or afraid of what the conversation means for the relationship. Sometimes both partners are interested, but they are unsure how to move forward without damaging the trust they have

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The Silent Strain in the 30-Something Marriage: Why We Need to Talk About Mother-Son Enmeshment

If you’ve noticed a sudden surge of articles, podcasts, and social media discourse surrounding adult enmeshment, you aren’t alone. My previous blog on this topic resonated nationwide, sparking a massive wave of engagement. It clear that we have struck a collective nerve. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I see this phenomenon playing

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Money, Budgets, and the Family System: How Understanding Your Financial Dynamics Strengthens Connection

Money is one of the most common — and misunderstood — sources of tension in relationships and family systems. Money, Sex and families are the three biggest reasons couples show up in my office. Money has no emotional value on its on. However, within a couple/family system, it causes havoc if not understood.  Research consistently

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NEW Marriage after an affair: If you can do the work!

I have had conducted, hundreds of hours of repair and rebuilding a marriage/partnership after an emotional breach and or an affair. Ultimately, communication is essential in healing after an affair as it lays the groundwork for understanding, empathy, and reconnection. Couples willing to engage in open, honest conversations can not only repair the damage caused

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Understanding Affairs and Infidelities: A Deeper Look into Relationships

Affairs and infidelities are often viewed solely through the lens of betrayal and heartbreak. When a partner strays, whether physically or emotionally, the focus tends to be on the act itself—the breach of trust that follows the exchange of words or intimate moments with another person. However, as a therapist, I have come to realize

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What Happens to the High of the First Few Years of a Relationship? Is This Really as Good as It Gets?

In the early years of a relationship, love feels like a rush — exciting, effortless, and intoxicating. But as time passes, that initial high often fades, leaving couples wondering if the magic is gone. The shift isn’t a sign of failure; love evolves. Real intimacy and passion emerge when couples understand these changes, commit to

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Life Transitions and How to Stay Connected as a Couple and Family

In the world of family therapy, there’s a recurring theme I hear from many couples: the early years of raising young children can be the most challenging. While parenting is an incredibly rewarding journey, it also brings significant stress and change to a marriage. Couples often enter this phase with dreams of balancing a fulfilling

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If You Find Yourselves Caught in the Same Fight, Different Day: Understanding and Overcoming Destructive Couple Cycling

Every couple experiences conflict, but when you find yourselves caught in the same fight—what I often refer to as “Same Fight, Different Day”—it can feel disheartening and exhausting. As an Emotionally Focused Therapist trained in Dr. Sue Johnson’s modality, I have witnessed firsthand how these destructive cycles can drain the emotional energy from relationships. Sue

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