From an LMFT in Private Practice — On Transitioning to the “Adult Parent”: Love vs. Valued Contribution
As an LMFT working with families across developmental stages, I regularly meet parents who feel both loved and sidelined by their adult children. That painful mixture—affection without appreciation—can feel like grief, rejection, or invisibility. Clinically, we frame this as part developmental transition, part relational boundary work, and part identity reconfiguration. Why this shift happens: Adult […]









