Carolyn Riviere

The Art of Coming Home to Yourself: Navigating the Journey from People-Pleasing to Authenticity

In clinical practice, people-pleasing is often framed as a relational survival strategy rather than simply a personality trait. Many individuals who struggle with chronic accommodating, over-functioning, or conflict avoidance are not “weak” or inherently inauthentic—they are adapting to early environments where connection, approval, or emotional safety felt conditional. Over time, however, what once functioned as […]

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Opposites Attract, But Can They Last? The Science and Soul of the Introvert-Extrovert Match

In the early, intoxicating days of a relationship, we often feel like we’ve found our “missing piece.” If you are a high-energy, fast-talking extrovert, you might be mesmerized by the quiet, grounded presence of an introvert. If you are a reserved, reflective soul, you might be invigorated by someone who breathes life into every room

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Money, Budgets, and the Family System: How Understanding Your Financial Dynamics Strengthens Connection

Money is one of the most common — and misunderstood — sources of tension in relationships and family systems. Money, Sex and families are the three biggest reasons couples show up in my office. Money has no emotional value on its on. However, within a couple/family system, it causes havoc if not understood.  Research consistently

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From an LMFT in Private Practice — On Transitioning to the “Adult Parent”: Love vs. Valued Contribution

As an LMFT working with families across developmental stages, I regularly meet parents who feel both loved and sidelined by their adult children. That painful mixture—affection without appreciation—can feel like grief, rejection, or invisibility. Clinically, we frame this as part developmental transition, part relational boundary work, and part identity reconfiguration. Why this shift happens: Adult

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NEW Marriage after an affair: If you can do the work!

I have had conducted, hundreds of hours of repair and rebuilding a marriage/partnership after an emotional breach and or an affair. Ultimately, communication is essential in healing after an affair as it lays the groundwork for understanding, empathy, and reconnection. Couples willing to engage in open, honest conversations can not only repair the damage caused

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Desire, Healing, and the Longings of the Human Heart: A Therapist’s Reflection on Jay Stringer’s DESIRE

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice—and as a sex and trauma therapist—I have spent years sitting with individuals and couples who arrive in my office carrying a familiar yet deeply personal ache. Many describe it as existential angst. Others call it restlessness, dissatisfaction, longing, or emptiness. Beneath the surface, what I

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Understanding Affairs and Infidelities: A Deeper Look into Relationships

Affairs and infidelities are often viewed solely through the lens of betrayal and heartbreak. When a partner strays, whether physically or emotionally, the focus tends to be on the act itself—the breach of trust that follows the exchange of words or intimate moments with another person. However, as a therapist, I have come to realize

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Understanding and Managing Anxiety

The Connection Between Anxiety and Depression Anxiety and depression are two of the most common mental health conditions — and they often appear together. This overlap, known as comorbidity, means that addressing one often helps the other. Both conditions can impact focus, mood, motivation, and overall well-being, making early understanding and intervention crucial.Research shows that

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What Happens to the High of the First Few Years of a Relationship? Is This Really as Good as It Gets?

In the early years of a relationship, love feels like a rush — exciting, effortless, and intoxicating. But as time passes, that initial high often fades, leaving couples wondering if the magic is gone. The shift isn’t a sign of failure; love evolves. Real intimacy and passion emerge when couples understand these changes, commit to

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