Carolyn Riviere

From an LMFT in Private Practice — On Transitioning to the “Adult Parent”: Love vs. Valued Contribution

As an LMFT working with families across developmental stages, I regularly meet parents who feel both loved and sidelined by their adult children. That painful mixture—affection without appreciation—can feel like grief, rejection, or invisibility. Clinically, we frame this as part developmental transition, part relational boundary work, and part identity reconfiguration. Why this shift happens: Adult […]

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NEW Marriage after an affair: If you can do the work!

I have had conducted, hundreds of hours of repair and rebuilding a marriage/partnership after an emotional breach and or an affair. Ultimately, communication is essential in healing after an affair as it lays the groundwork for understanding, empathy, and reconnection. Couples willing to engage in open, honest conversations can not only repair the damage caused

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Desire, Healing, and the Longings of the Human Heart: A Therapist’s Reflection on Jay Stringer’s DESIRE

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice—and as a sex and trauma therapist—I have spent years sitting with individuals and couples who arrive in my office carrying a familiar yet deeply personal ache. Many describe it as existential angst. Others call it restlessness, dissatisfaction, longing, or emptiness. Beneath the surface, what I

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Understanding Affairs and Infidelities: A Deeper Look into Relationships

Affairs and infidelities are often viewed solely through the lens of betrayal and heartbreak. When a partner strays, whether physically or emotionally, the focus tends to be on the act itself—the breach of trust that follows the exchange of words or intimate moments with another person. However, as a therapist, I have come to realize

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Understanding and Managing Anxiety

The Connection Between Anxiety and Depression Anxiety and depression are two of the most common mental health conditions — and they often appear together. This overlap, known as comorbidity, means that addressing one often helps the other. Both conditions can impact focus, mood, motivation, and overall well-being, making early understanding and intervention crucial.Research shows that

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What Happens to the High of the First Few Years of a Relationship? Is This Really as Good as It Gets?

In the early years of a relationship, love feels like a rush — exciting, effortless, and intoxicating. But as time passes, that initial high often fades, leaving couples wondering if the magic is gone. The shift isn’t a sign of failure; love evolves. Real intimacy and passion emerge when couples understand these changes, commit to

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When college kids come home for Christmas: therapist guidance for parents and family systems

As a Marriage and Family therapist, we believe in 5 major life cycles that we as humans, experience from birth to end of life. One of the most rewarding and stressful is parenting. Our goal as parents is to launch healthy, productive citizens into this world! The college or trade school transition is one of

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Life Transitions and How to Stay Connected as a Couple and Family

In the world of family therapy, there’s a recurring theme I hear from many couples: the early years of raising young children can be the most challenging. While parenting is an incredibly rewarding journey, it also brings significant stress and change to a marriage. Couples often enter this phase with dreams of balancing a fulfilling

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Male and Female Sexual Dysfunction in America: Why Are So Many Couples Not Having Sex?

Introduction As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I have had the privilege of working with over 12,000 couples in the Denver Tech Center (DTC). Throughout my practice, I have been increasingly aware of a troubling trend: the lack of sexual intimacy among couples. This phenomenon is particularly pronounced among the demographic I see

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